Be a Powerful or Powerless Woman

Be a Powerful or Powerless Woman? In The Englishwoman, Ruth Prawer Jhabvala writes about Sadie, a fifty-two-year-old Englishwoman who leaves her keep up and children substructure after her marriage with her maintain for thirty years. Sadie goes back to her home country, England, to spend the rest of her life since she is not satisfied with the smother life in India. Sadie feels disappoint when life in India is not the same as she expected, which she experiences in a culture clash between Indian culture and her own.However, in Isabel Allendes The try outs Wife, Casilda is presented as a kingful woman in front of her husband, Judge Hidalgo. When Judge Hidalgo sets up a trap for Nicolas Vidal, the leader of a gang of bandit, by caging his mother, Juana the Forlorn, Casilda goes to save her. In their seven years of matrimonial life, it was the first quantify that Casilda had gone against Judge Hidalgo. After the sudden death of Hidalgo, Casilda gives herself totally to Nicolas Vidal, who is involuntary to sacrifice his life for her, in order to gain time for her children.Sadie decides to leave her family and marriage behind because of her powerless status within her husbands culture whereas Casilda holds great power against her husband and Nicolas Vidal. Due to the conflict between the culture of Sadies husband and her own, the Englishwoman despairs of the unbearable life in India. Although Sadie has been married to an Indian for thirty years, it seems that she has no power or deflect in the family. Jhabvala says that, Her husbands family enjoyed and abetted her attempts to become Indian.A whole roofy of them mother-in-law, sister-in-law, aunts, cousins, and friends would cram into the family car (1258). It shows that Sadies husband has a large family, hence Sadie loses her hostesss status and the other family members seem to put on more(prenominal) rights than her. Moreover, Sadie starts living in this family with quite a lot of family members, an d she needs to follow the rules, style and culture of the Indian family. In short, Sadie, as an Englishwoman, cannot adapt the Indians culture and because of the big family, she shows no status and influence in the family.This may be one of the reasons why Sadie decides to leave the Indian family. In addition to the culture clash, roles of other relatives like the mother-in-law, aunts, even the servants are more important than Sadie when her son, Dev, was sick. Jhabvala states that, He lay burning in the middle of a great bed, with his eyes full of fever he was very quiet notwithstanding for an occasional groan. All the women in the house had gathered round his beside and all were giving advice and different remedies (1260).When Sadie notices that all women in the house come to her sons bedroom, she realizes that she is insignificant in the family, even less important than the servants. Jhabvala describes that some women sit on the chairs and some sit on the floor. This implies tha t the room of Dev is flooded with the relatives and servants. Besides, Sadie cannot bear the mother-in-law, who is nevertheless smoking and reading a novel, squatted cross-legged on the end of Devs bed. Sadie feels sad for her son since she thinks the women who cram into her sons bedroom are stifling her son and that he cannot breathe too.Other than that, Sadie remembers when she was sick in her childhood, the only somebody who ever came in was her mother when it is time for her medicine (1260). Thus, Sadie thinks that she should be the only person to look after her son instead of the crowd of relatives and servants. The Englishwoman finds that she loses her status of a mother for taking care of her ill son and this brings up a reckon that aids her to leave the Indian family In contrast with Jhavalas story, Casilda holds a lot of power over her husband, Judge Hidalgo, and she influences his overall behavior after she married to him.Judge Hidalgo is a severity, stubbornness man and didnt have the slightest notion of how to go about pleasing a woman (1226). Although Judge Hidalgo is twice as Casildas age, she is happy and she gave birth to three lovely kids after their marriage. Also, Allende states that, he flung off his gloomy apparel, rollicked with his children, chuckled as he sat Casilda on his lap (1227). He becomes a caring husband and lovely father for Casilda and their children after Casilda married him. Casilda not only influences her husbands behavior towards family, but also transforms his character from a stubborn mind to a mercy thought.After Judge Hidalgo sets up a trap for Nicolas Vidal, which put Vidals mother, Juana the Forlorn, in a specially made batting cage for three days with a jug of water Casilda brings food and water to save her. Initially, Judge Hidalgo ignores the people who plead with Judge Hidalgo for Christian mercy and to beg him to spare the poor old innocent woman such a frightful death (1229). In other words, though people protest the mien of setting this trap by caging the ill-treated old woman, the Judge doesnt change his mind at all. Yet, Allende says that Judge Hidalgo himself opened the cage to elease the prisoner (1229) because of Casildas begging. In their seven years marriage life, it is the first time that Casilda uses her power to challenge with Judge Hidalgo because she wants to persuade him to become a lenient man. This proves the importance of Casildas status in her husbands mind and completely influences her husbands personality to make him become a merciful man. Using her power and grandeur, Casilda finds a cliff for hiding her three children so as to avoid being killed by the Vidals party, and tries her best to satisfy Vidal as to gain more time for her children.To his surprise, Nicolas Vidal realizes that Casilda is the first person who faces him without fear in his life. Moreover, Casilda focuses on gaining time for her children by pleasuring Nicolas Vidal. At last, Casilda begged N icolas Vidal to escape since the soldiers are going to kill him. However, Allende says that, Nicolas Vidal chose to fold her in a last embrace, thus fulfilling the prophecy that had sealed his fate from the start (1231). Nicolas Vidal gives himself up to exchange for the last embrace because of Casilda, the only woman who influences him most of his life and is willing to sacrifice his life for her.To conclude, Sadie attempts to become an Indian in the beginning of her marriage life. However, she fails and leaves her husband and children behind due to her helpless status and the differences between the culture of her husband and her own. On the other hand, Casilda uses her great power to influence her husbands behavior and Nicolas Vidal who was even willing to lose his life for her. Among these different situations, the two women have no opportunity to choose between a powerful or powerless woman because their life is destined by fate.